𓆃 The Art of Being Received

A codex on the God-wound, extraction, and the return to sovereign reciprocity

There is a quiet ache that lives at the center of many people who feel deeply, lead intuitively, or hold space for others — not because they are invisible, but because they are often engaged for what they offer rather than met for who they are.

They are listened to, learned from, leaned on — and yet still misunderstood, mischaracterized, or subtly left alone in their depth.

This is the God-wound.

Not the wound of ego, but the ache of being a source of nourishment without always being chosen in relationship.
Of being referenced but not rested with.
Of being close enough to activate something in others,but not close enough to be fully loved or held.
Of being idealized or dismissed — but rarely received.

🜂 The God-Wound: Seen but Not Chosen

God is everywhere, on lips, in rituals, in language we inherit, and yet often not fully received.
Many of us were taught how to speak about the divine, but not how to be with it. We learned how to draw from something larger than ourselves, without learning how to stay present with it.

And the same pattern can quietly appear in human relationships.

Those who tend to feel deeply, who carry strong current, who speak from lived knowing rather than concept, are often engaged with in similar ways. Their words are noted. Their presence is felt. Their insight is taken in.

But being drawn from is not the same as being met.

They may be invited into spaces, conversations, or collaborations, yet not held in return. They may be admired, referenced, even learned from — without the reciprocal presence that allows real relationship to form.

This isn’t usually intentional.
It’s often a capacity gap.

Many people were never taught how to remain present with depth without trying to manage it, interpret it, or extract from it. And so an ache can form, not from ego or superiority, but from the simple human question:

“Is there a place where I can pour and also be held?”

🜁 Extraction vs. Reciprocity

To pour into someone while they are open, curious, and present — is nourishing.
To pour into someone while they are subtly comparing, positioning, or protecting themselves — is extraction.

One creates connection.
The other creates fatigue.

Many of us — especially women and those on service-oriented paths — were conditioned to confuse pouring with proving. We over-offer to stay safe. We lead in order to belong. We give before we feel whether the space can receive.

This pattern isn’t love.
It’s inheritance.
It’s trauma.
It’s the echo of generations where care flowed outward without protection or return.

🜃 Reclaiming the Right to Be Received

Being received is not about being worshipped.
It is not about being followed.
It is about being met.

It’s being felt in your fullness without shrinking.
It’s being asked questions that open your voice because someone genuinely wants to know you.
It’s being held with the same care and presence you offer others.

Receiving becomes a quiet declaration:

I no longer pour into spaces that cannot feel me.
I no longer give from the hope of being chosen.
I am not here to over-explain, over-extend, or self-erase.
I am allowed to be met.

Receiving is not passive.
It is discernment in motion.

It’s not only about what others do —it’s about what you allow.

🜄 Integration: Questions to Anchor Your Yes/No

• Does this invitation feel spacious or constricting in my body?

• Do I feel respected before I offer anything?

• Is there mutual presence here, or only interest in what I provide?

• Am I being invited as a whole person — or as a function?

• Does this yes come from grounded clarity, or from an old hope to be chosen?

🜁 Living the Code

Let your yes come from presence, not pain.
Let your no come from clarity, not defense.
Let your ache be witnessed — not compensated for.

You don’t need to harden.
You don’t need to withdraw from connection.

You only need to choose spaces where reciprocity is possible.

And remember this:
When God truly speaks through you, not all will know how to listen.
But the ones who can — will ask you questions that open you.
They will not draw from your Source. They will sit beside it.